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🌱 The Secret to Thriving: Embracing the Get Better, Not Bitter Philosophy
Get Better, Not Bitter
🌱 The Secret to Thriving: Embracing the Get Better, Not Bitter Philosophy
Hello dear Readers 👋👋,
Welcome to this week’s newsletter.
Are you tired of feeling bitter and resentful every time life throws a curveball at you?
Picture this: You've worked tirelessly on a project, poured your heart and soul into it, only to have it fall apart in front of your eyes.
The disappointment settles in, and bitterness consumes you. But what if there's a better way?
In today's newsletter, we'll dive deep into strategies for overcoming adversity, and nurturing resilience.
Join us as we explore how challenges can be stepping stones, and bitterness can be transformed into motivation.
Let's begin.
Overcoming Adversity
Resilience, the ability to bounce back from challenges and setbacks, is a crucial skill in navigating life's ups and downs.
"The oak fought the wind and was broken, the willow bent when it must and survived." Robert Jordan
Life is an exciting journey full of unexpected twists and turns, and your ability to adapt is what will keep you going.
We face
➤ Rejection at work,
➤ Rejection in relationships,
➤ Deception from Friends
➤ Family Betrayals among others.
Low Resilience Effects
We end up facing those battles on our own and become resentful of the unfortunate events.
We dwell on them day in, day out, allowing them to take space in our minds & thriving in the present.
A negative lens is placed upon our field of vision.
You can't appreciate your small every day wins or events happening around you.
How to Embrace Change & Overcome Adversity
Reframe Your Challenges
2 Powerful Questions to ask yourselves before giving in to your negative self-talk: